Once we realize that only we are responsible for our own happiness, our world changes. We stop playing the blame game. We know and understand that we have the power to overcome our weakness, and fetch for ourselves, a true and genuine state of happiness.
Many situations come in our lives, which take us to this unimaginably delightful level of happiness, yet no matter how marvellous the experiences are, they never last. They are transitory.
We need to create happiness on a conscious level and there are various ways of training our minds to do it.
TRUST THE HIGHER POWER
When you trust in the power and the wisdom of your sub conscious to guide you, and direct your ways, you become calm and relaxed. You radiate peace and joy and become, a conduit of happiness.
Make a conscious decision of being happy. Repeat to yourself "Divine order take charge of my life" All things must work together for the common good. Let Divine love surround you and enrapt you.
BE A MAGNET
Whenever attention wanders away from the good, bring it back to focus on the good and lovely. Be a mental magnet to attract all required and desirable things to yourself.
DESIRE TO BE HAPPY
Many people like to believe, that the world is a cruel place, which wants to get you. They feel guilty about wanting to be happy. For example, there is a woman, who constantly complains about her illness, tries to remain in the victim mode, playing the role of a martyr. She enjoys the attention of her children, and people around her, she seems to actually enjoy the benefits of her negative mind set. So it is essential that the awareness of a happy mind is created and felt.
MAKE HAPPINESS A HABIT
Keep all joyous habits in your mental kit. Keep singing, whistling, smiling, laughing, after some time, it will just become a habit. When you reach a level of joy, your frequency changes. You will then mentally emit that element.
LAW OF ATTRACTION
A negative mind set will attract a negative environment which in turn creates a vicious cycle of negativity. Staying positive and attracting positivity, is the only way to be.
GET RID OF GUILT
Many of us in our childhood, are taught that we must suffer, in order to be labelled as good human beings. Suffering is glorified in most cultures. We are taught to feel guilty if we are happy. This is so very wrong and damaging to our psyches. We need to teach our minds, to get rid of guilt and get comfortable within ourselves.
KEEP YOUR MIND CALM
"Happiness is the harvest of a quiet mind" resentment and anger in the mind, take us in the wrong direction. We need to be clear about our inner values.
TAP INTO YOUR OWN POWER
We all have a reservoir within us of unlimited power. We limit ourselves with our own thinking. We need to have confidence in this power within to make our dreams come true.