A charismatic visionary and transformational teacher, Kute Blackson offers a fresh, bold look at spiritual awareness for a whole new generation.
You Are The One
….. It’s a new year!!
In order to manifest powerfully this year, remember that:
You don’t get what you want, you get what you are.
You job isn’t to make or force something to happen. Your job is to clear away anything within yourself that is keeping you stuck.
When you clear away whatever is not in alignment with your truth, you bring yourself into the flow of life.
Often we hold onto things that are not working or old relationships because we get comfortable.
Holding onto what isn’t working is your affirmation in the lack of trust in the Universe. And you will attract more of what you don’t want.
Holding onto what is no longer working out of fear simply blocks the manifestation of what you do want.
When we try to force everything, we actually push it away. If you just observe life around you, you'll notice the proof that the universe knows what it's doing.
How do you NOT have faith in the universe? Where is your attention right now? Are you focusing too much on the future?
Focus on all the times where things worked out. We tend to think too much about what is not working out. And we keep thinking what SHOULD be.
Trust that the universe knows what is really best for you.
Surrender and live in peace.
In this video, I discuss how to develop more trust in the universe.
We have all felt moments of loneliness in life.
That sense of feeling disconnected to yourself, those around you and nature. It’s painful to feel that you are the only one going through your experience, or that no one understands your pain.
The truth is that you are not alone. There are millions of people around the world going through what you are and feeling similar emotions this very second. There are billions of people in the past that have as well.
We may seem different on the surface in terms of religion, skin color, political beliefs, but at our core we all share the same humanity, the same desires, the same fear, concerns and pain.
We all want to love and be loved.
When stuck in the feeling of loneliness, take a look and see if you are obsessing about yourself. This creates a sense of feeling disconnected from all those around you.
The loneliness may also be a signal about certain things in your life that aren’t working which you need to pay attention to and change.
What is it that you might need to change?
We have all done things that we felt bad about and judged ourselves for.
Whether it was:
Bad relationship choices.
The way you handled a break up.
Unwise financial decisions.
What are you still judging yourself for?
Maybe you have been holding yourself hostage, thinking you are a bad person or that God is judging you?
Consider this:
God doesn’t forgive.
Because God never judged you.
And if this is so, then why are you still judging you?
We are living in intense times.
It’s easy to let external circumstances hijack our ability to be present and instead live in fear.
During these times, you, yourself, or you might have friends, who seem to be stuck in fear-based thinking and living.
This can be very challenging, especially if you’re someone who is committed to living with an open heart and boldly.
I was recently asked the question, ‘How do I help my friends around me who seem stuck living in fear?’ So I decided to share my response in a video blog. I hope you’ll find it valuable and share it with all of those love.
“True joy is bringing your attention to the inherent beauty, inherent privilege of what it is to be alive in this moment.”
Stop chasing happiness. The quest actually makes us less happy.
We go after things that we think will make us happy, but we are left feeling empty. We often put happiness out there in the future and we are in a constant state of seeking it so we end up never feeling happy now. The ego has no interest in being happy. The moment it actually finds it, its role is dissolved so it keeps you distant from happiness.
Happiness does not come from what you achieve or get, it is a state of being. You can be happy regardless of what is happening in your life, regardless of what you have or don't have. You must question your definition of success. You must question your definition of happiness.
“There is a power when you dare to go slow.”
This can lead to being an over-giver. When you’re an over-giver and don’t allow yourself to receive, you also rob others of the gift of giving to you.
Giving and receiving are actually two sides of the same coin. So how do you stop being an over-giver if you are one? I share some thoughts in my new video.
Your feelings are a signal giving you feedback.
They are communicating to you, showing you, what you need to pay attention to.
We are conditioned to only feel what we think of as “positive” feelings. And we tend to do everything to avoid “negative“ feelings.
We must realize that the more we suppress our sadness, the more we limit our capacity to feel joy.
Consider this: Feelings are neither good or bad. These are just labels we place on them as a means of survival.
Feelings are feedback.
Feelings are energy.
Just because you aren’t where you think you should be in your life doesn’t mean you’re not exactly where you are meant to be.
Sometimes we get caught up in the idea that we need to achieve certain things by a certain time of our lives. When we don’t it’s easy to feel like a failure or beat yourself up for not being where you expected.
Perhaps you wanted to:
– Be a millionaire by 35.
– Be a New York Times Bestselling author, selling millions of books.
– Win an Oscar.
– Marry your soulmate and have 2 kids by 40.
– Own your dream house.
We all have our own ideas and expectations.
We all go through those moments when we feel like giving up.
Whether you are facing a tough time in your relationship, struggling financially, or facing repeated failures in the pursuit of your dream…. Life can be challenging at times.
But anything worthwhile takes patience, perseverance, and effort. If it was easy everyone would be doing it. On the path of greatness, everyone is invited, but only a rare few have the courage and dedication to stay the full course.
If you are going through tough times right now, remember that it is a season, and no season lasts forever. Even your most difficult time will pass.
Trust.
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