A charismatic visionary and transformational teacher, Kute Blackson offers a fresh, bold look at spiritual awareness for a whole new generation.
You Are The One
We come together in relationship with another for our evolution and growth.
The people you attract are simply mirror manifestations in that moment in time that reflect who you are.
The friends that you attract to you reflect your current level of consciousness.
You attracted friends into your life because at that time you were a vibrational match and you had certain lessons to teach each other.
The success of a friendship isn’t about the duration that you stay friends with someone, but the degree to which you both grow, evolve, and become more authentically your true Self.
Staying in a friendship where you are both no longer growing simply because of obligation, guilt, or because you made a commitment years ago, is not success.
“You will always have some haters. In fact, I believe if you have some haters, you're probably doing something great.” — Kute Blackson
You can know that you always have yourself whether that person stays or goes.
You must commit to the process of loving in and of itself. All forms change. So whether the person stays or leaves your life, you stay in love.
You continue loving yourself.
You never stop loving yourself.
“Your past does not have to determine your future. Forgive yourself and set yourself free.”
We often put happiness out there in the future and we are in a constant state of seeking it so we end up never feeling happy now. The ego has no interest in being happy. The moment it actually finds it, its role is dissolved so it keeps you distant from happiness.
Happiness does not come from what you achieve or get, it is a state of being. You can be happy regardless of what is happening in your life, regardless of what you have or don't have. You must question your definition of success. You must question your definition of happiness.
We all go through those moments when we feel like giving up.
Whether you are facing a tough time in your relationship, struggling financially, or facing repeated failures in the pursuit of your dream…. Life can be challenging at times.
But anything worthwhile takes patience, perseverance and effort. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it. On the path of greatness, everyone is invited, but only a rare few have the courage and dedication to stay the full course.
If you are going through tough times right now, remember that it is a season, and no season lasts forever. Even your most difficult time will pass.
Trust.
Your challenges are gifts in disguise sent by the Universe to strengthen your character. Your dreams chose you for a reason. And your dream will take you on a journey of having to become the person who is capable of fulfilling the vision.
Don't place your worth on another person. Don't depend on them to have self-value. You should feel completely secure with or without them. Your partner doesn't belong to you. You serve each other and help each other fulfill their purpose but your happiness shouldn't depend on them. Love cannot exist when manipulation is present. Trying to control another person is not love.
When you can truly love the other person and yourself without conditions, you will end suffering in relationships.
Some Questions I Ask:
- How do you know the right moment to ask for guidance?
- What are the signs to recognize that this person would be a good teacher?
- How can you trust that this is the right teacher?
- What if you choose a teacher that is not aligned with you?
- How many teachers can a person have in their life?
Your parents may not be perfect human beings, as they too are souls on this journey of life and are here to learn lessons like you.
But what if you have the perfect parents for your soul’s growth and evolution in this lifetime?
Relationships with parents can be some of the most challenging and difficult to navigate.
Ask yourself: What are the lessons that your soul is seeking to learn with them?
They give birth to you, raise you, and impact so much of who you become.
They simply did the best that they knew how to do at that time of their lives, even though it may not have been what you wanted.
It’s highly unlikely they woke up each day thinking about how they could cause you the most suffering. Likely, they were in pain themselves.
Hurt people tend to hurt other people, and the cycle continues.
You can break the cycle and take your power back.
The only way to change the effects of it is to release it.
What you've done in your past does not have to define who you are today.
We are all going to make "mistakes." All of those experiences give us the lessons we need to evolve. Take full responsibility for what happened, make amends, then move on.
In this video, I discuss how to let go of your past. We all have things we regret or offenses we're holding on to or hurt we are harboring.
How do you set your boundaries with loved ones?
How do you honor your needs and also set your boundaries while honoring your relationships with others?
In this video, I discuss how to set boundaries with the people you live with so everyone's needs can be met. With everyone on lockdown, this has become more important than ever. You want to use this time to get closer to loved ones, not farther away.
These are challenging times.
We are all going through the same storm as humanity, but not all of us are on the same ship facing the same experiences.
As we all go through these moments of uncertainty, some of you might be thinking how you are going to pay your bills this week or this month.
Some of may be wondering how to keep your health and immune system high.
Some of you are concerned about your loved ones, children or elderly parents.
We are all in a different boat but in the same storm and regardless, the storm is the storm.
And, these are difficult moments.
“Each relationship serves a different function and purpose in your life. Ultimately, every single relationship you are in is for your growth, evolution and learning.”
Some Questions I Ask:
- What is the secret to getting other people to change?
- How is trying to change other people taking your power away?
- How can I stop controlling other people?
- Am I ready to receive what others are ready to give me?
- How can I accept another without judgment?
- What does this person mirror to me about myself?
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