Love is the foundation of human existence. Songs, novels, movies, poetry have been written about the subject of Love. As human beings, we are on an eternal quest of seeking love. Whether we are conscious of it or not, life becomes a process of this quest and seeking. So what blocks us from achieving this quest for love? What are the secrets to finding love in life? In this episode, I will share the three blocks to love and how to let them go, for good.
We come together in relationship with another for our evolution and growth.
The people you attract are simply mirror manifestations in that moment in time that reflect who you are.
The friends that you attract to you reflect your current level of consciousness.
You attracted friends into your life because at that time you were a vibrational match and you had certain lessons to teach each other.
The success of a friendship isn’t about the duration that you stay friends with someone, but the degree to which you both grow, evolve, and become more authentically your true Self.
Staying in a friendship where you are both no longer growing simply because of obligation, guilt, or because you made a commitment years ago, is not success.
“You will always have some haters. In fact, I believe if you have some haters, you're probably doing something great.” — Kute Blackson
You will always have haters in your life, your haters are people who gossip about you, talk negatively about you, hate on you for some reason. You will always have some haters in your life. It’s inevitable. It’s life. In this episode, I share a simple practice and ideas to learn how to deal with other people's hatred towards you. If you really want to be free, you must make peace with yourself and know you will not be able to please everyone. No matter what you do, you will have people who do not like you and will talk about you. Listen to this important episode and learn how to be at peace within yourself, so that you can be freer in the world.
To love fully in relationships is a vulnerable thing. To commit in relationship is equally vulnerable too.
You can’t control what happens in love or with the other person. It requires that you open your heart and risk.
To commit in love can be scary sometimes.Many of us fear the commitment that comes with loving someone. Realize, that your only commitment is to yourself. When you honor your truth, honor yourself every moment, you are "committing" to them.
You can know that you always have yourself whether that person stays or goes.
You must commit to the process of loving in and of itself. All forms change. So whether the person stays or leaves your life, you stay in love.
You continue loving yourself.
You never stop loving yourself.
“Your past does not have to determine your future. Forgive yourself and set yourself free.”
As human beings, we can feel judged by others, especially by ourselves, for the "bad decisions" we made in the past. Ultimately, regret is a waste of time. Listen to this episode to learn the 4 keys to getting out of the mental loop of feeling tormented by your past mistakes, and being able to face your reality with a new perspective that helps you evolve and accept yourself as is and live more authentically as you.
We often put happiness out there in the future and we are in a constant state of seeking it so we end up never feeling happy now. The ego has no interest in being happy. The moment it actually finds it, its role is dissolved so it keeps you distant from happiness.
Happiness does not come from what you achieve or get, it is a state of being. You can be happy regardless of what is happening in your life, regardless of what you have or don't have. You must question your definition of success. You must question your definition of happiness.
Who are you… really? What is the ego? And can you really let go of it? In this episode, I dive deep into the subject of the ego, it’s function, what it really is, and how we go through life allowing our ego to run the show. We live our lives unconscious of the conditioning that has happened early on in our childhood without realizing that this might not really be you, it’s more the conditioned you. This powerful episode will help you observe yourself and your own conditioning in order to recognize and begin to shift and release those parts of yourself that are attached to your ego, this conditioned identity. It’s time to free yourself and find the real you!
We all go through those moments when we feel like giving up.
Whether you are facing a tough time in your relationship, struggling financially, or facing repeated failures in the pursuit of your dream…. Life can be challenging at times.
But anything worthwhile takes patience, perseverance and effort. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it. On the path of greatness, everyone is invited, but only a rare few have the courage and dedication to stay the full course.
If you are going through tough times right now, remember that it is a season, and no season lasts forever. Even your most difficult time will pass.
Your challenges are gifts in disguise sent by the Universe to strengthen your character. Your dreams chose you for a reason. And your dream will take you on a journey of having to become the person who is capable of fulfilling the vision.
Don't place your worth on another person. Don't depend on them to have self-value. You should feel completely secure with or without them. Your partner doesn't belong to you. You serve each other and help each other fulfill their purpose but your happiness shouldn't depend on them. Love cannot exist when manipulation is present. Trying to control another person is not love.
When you can truly love the other person and yourself without conditions, you will end suffering in relationships.
The Universe is giving to you in every moment. Air is giving you life. Nature is giving you beauty. The sun is giving you light and warmth. So be bold and dare to ask for what you want, rather than silently suffering, thinking those around you should be psychic and know what you need. In this episode, I’ll share about the power of asking for what you want and the amazing gift in how to receive it.
Growing up, I remember my physical ed teacher that to this day has no idea how much he impacted my life. He was a man of discipline. Finding the right teacher is hard, but if you are willing to learn, the right teacher will appear. Listen to this episode to understand how the biggest lessons of your life will come from the people you surround yourself with and choose to learn from.
Some Questions I Ask:
- How do you know the right moment to ask for guidance?
- What are the signs to recognize that this person would be a good teacher?
- How can you trust that this is the right teacher?
- What if you choose a teacher that is not aligned with you?
- How many teachers can a person have in their life?
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- Three keys that will help you choose the right teacher for your growth and development.
- How to recognize when your teacher has appeared.
- How we choose teachers that will show us ourselves and reinforce our own identity.
- The first and most important lesson to learn from any teacher.
- What is the right moment to ask for help.
Your parents may not be perfect human beings, as they too are souls on this journey of life and are here to learn lessons like you.
But what if you have the perfect parents for your soul’s growth and evolution in this lifetime?
Relationships with parents can be some of the most challenging and difficult to navigate.
Ask yourself: What are the lessons that your soul is seeking to learn with them?
They give birth to you, raise you, and impact so much of who you become.
They simply did the best that they knew how to do at that time of their lives, even though it may not have been what you wanted.
It’s highly unlikely they woke up each day thinking about how they could cause you the most suffering. Likely, they were in pain themselves.
Hurt people tend to hurt other people, and the cycle continues.
You can break the cycle and take your power back.
Relationships with parents can be challenging. Whether you have an amazing relationship or a difficult relationship with your parents, there are a few things to consider if you want to transform your relationship. In this episode, I’ll share some deep thoughts and possibly a different perspective that will help you live a life that is more joyful and meaningful for you and your relationship with your parents.
Experiencing disagreements with those that we love is a natural part of being human. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing with someone, but it can be a deep source of pain, especially with those you love. In this episode, I explore the possibility of seeing a new perspective, where even if you both have a different viewpoint, they can still come from the best intentions.
The only way to change the effects of it is to release it.
What you've done in your past does not have to define who you are today.
We are all going to make "mistakes." All of those experiences give us the lessons we need to evolve. Take full responsibility for what happened, make amends, then move on.
In this video, I discuss how to let go of your past. We all have things we regret or offenses we're holding on to or hurt we are harboring.
...... Setting your boundaries with people in your life is never an easy task.
However, in order to do so, you must know who you are and what your needs are.
In my new video, I share some simple ideas that will help you honor yourself and your needs more authentically.
How do you set your boundaries with loved ones?
How do you honor your needs and also set your boundaries while honoring your relationships with others?
In this video, I discuss how to set boundaries with the people you live with so everyone's needs can be met. With everyone on lockdown, this has become more important than ever. You want to use this time to get closer to loved ones, not farther away.
“We all feel pain when things don't go according to plan, but suffering is optional.”
We are all as humanity going through this enormous unprecedented time of COVID-19. We may not all be on the same boat, but we are in the same storm. Regardless of where you're at during this time, you don't have to suffer. Feelings are natural, and feelings will remain present until fully felt. Listen to this episode to learn how to navigate through these times with a new perspective, new focus, and choosing to look at what truly matters.
“The healthier and more vibrant your body is, the more you can express yourself through it and live your dream.”
We often live with the pressure of having a ‘perfect’ body according to the standard created by the media and society as a whole. As a result, this can often lead to shame, self-rejection and even hatred of our body. Listen to this important episode to learn how to love your body and honor this amazing vehicle of your soul.
These are challenging times.
We are all going through the same storm as humanity, but not all of us are on the same ship facing the same experiences.
As we all go through these moments of uncertainty, some of you might be thinking how you are going to pay your bills this week or this month.
Some of may be wondering how to keep your health and immune system high.
Some of you are concerned about your loved ones, children or elderly parents.
We are all in a different boat but in the same storm and regardless, the storm is the storm.
And, these are difficult moments.
“Each relationship serves a different function and purpose in your life. Ultimately, every single relationship you are in is for your growth, evolution and learning.”
When we spend our time trying to control the lives of those we love, we’re putting our power, our freedom, our joy, our happiness in the hands of someone else. Listen to this episode as I share the secret to real freedom when it comes to changing other people and how to shift your focus to a more empowering way of thinking.
Some Questions I Ask:
- What is the secret to getting other people to change?
- How is trying to change other people taking your power away?
- How can I stop controlling other people?
- Am I ready to receive what others are ready to give me?
- How can I accept another without judgment?
- What does this person mirror to me about myself?
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- 3 key questions to ask yourself when you are challenged by someone.
- A key element to all relationships that will change everything.
- How to honor and love yourself unconditionally.
- How communication is a key element to honoring your relationship.
- How acceptance of another is an important part of your own evolution.
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