The partner you attract in a relationship is a mirror manifestation of yourself. When you don’t have a good relationship with yourself, you look to your partner to give you a sense of validation. This leads to feelings of insecurity and suffering. Listen to this episode to learn 7 simple, yet powerful keys to improve your relationship with yourself and overcome feelings of insecurity.
Some Questions I Ask:
- How often do you really connect with who you are?
- Have you ever felt insecure in your relationship?
- Do you like the partners you are attracting into your sphere?
- How do you deal with the fear of losing your identity in your relationship?
- How often do you look in the mirror? Do you like what you see?
- Have you noticed the voice in your head that criticizes you?
The decisions you made yesterday got you to where you are today.
The decisions you make today will create your future tomorrow.
With your decisions, you have a power to sculpt your destiny.
Yet given the increased choices we have in our high tech age, making decisions on one level has become easier. You can now do it with the touch of a button. But on the other hand, it can be more difficult, since we have so many more options to choose from.
Have you ever had to make an important decision and felt unsure, confused, or even felt paralyzed?
The fear of making the wrong decision, the fear of missing out, or what other people will think can majorly affect your ability to decide authentically.
Have you ever felt so overwhelmed and stressed out?
Perhaps you were juggling so many things, handling so many responsibilities, facing an important deadline, or needing to make some important decisions.
Once you get caught up in the spiral of overthinking, it can be difficult to get out of it. You end up feeling overwhelmed from all the directions your mind is pulling you.
If you listen to those voices, they can be crippling and will rob you of your power, freedom and dreams.
You are not the voices in your head.
You are not your thoughts.
Just because your mind tells you something doesn’t mean it’s true.
To be free you must learn to develop a relationship with your mind. By recognizing … You are NOT your mind!!
The only certainty we have from the day we are born is that we are all going to die. Life is frail, we know it, and yet we often choose to ignore it and waste precious time in meaningless quarrels or pursuits that don’t make us happy. In this touching episode, you will learn 6 powerful lessons about life and what really matters most from those who are dying.
Regret is a killer.
It robs you of your peace in the moment and limits your ability to create a fresh future.
Regret is that feeling when you look back from your future and wish you had done it differently.
We have all done things that we felt bad about and judged ourselves for from the past.
Whether it was:
Bad relationship choices.
The way you handled a break up.
Unwise financial decisions.
What are you still judging yourself for?
What regrets do you still have?
Maybe you have been holding yourself hostage, thinking you are a bad person or that God is judging you?
Putting things off for later is something we have all done. We often postpone unpleasant or challenging tasks until we have no choice, or worse yet, we never start. Procrastination can cost us years of our lives and endless regrets down the line. Listen to this episode to learn why we procrastinate and how to get over it, today.
Questions to Ask Yourself:
- What have you been putting off and what is it costing you?
- If you can’t handle the small stuff, how will you handle the big stuff?
- What is it time for you to do?
- What is life calling you to express?
- What have you been avoiding?
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- 3 reasons we procrastinate and how to overcome them.
- The correlation between consistency and success.
- How getting clarity on your motives for doing what you do will help you stay focused on the task at hand.
- Why drama is not a sustainable way of achieving success.
- 5 keys to avoid procrastinating.
- The one main reason to stop putting things off for tomorrow.
The FIRST step to making more money is an inner mindset shift.
In order to make more money, you must decide to get in the game. Part of getting in the game is choosing to have more money in your life. I have seen many folks on the spiritual path who haven’t made this decision, deciding that money is not so important, and thus struggle in this area.
Money is an important facilitator for life experiences. In order to build temples, hospitals, schools, you need money.
In order to feed the homeless, provide clean water, or simply pay the rent requires money. There’s only so much prayer you can give to your landlord to cover your rent! There’s only so much prayer you can feed a starving child in Africa.
I believe that those people with awakened consciousness will only use the money they have in more impactful ways. So make the decision and use money as a blessing.
SECONDLY, being rich is not simply a matter of how much money you have in your bank account. But how you feel about yourself, and how you feel about what you have.
Being rich is being connected to who you really are. As you connect to the real you, you realize that what you really are is infinite and priceless. You can have all the material possessions in the world, but if you don’t have YOU, then you are poor.
Your life is your art.
Your heart is your paintbrush.
With each word, thought, and action you take, you are sculpting your destiny.
You are an artist.
Do you like what you see?
Creativity is not just for artists, singers, and performers.
Creativity is your birthright.
“The more you can celebrate and bless the success of those around you, the more you open yourself to receive blessings in your life.”
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- 3 keys to overcome the feeling of jealousy.
- Why we sometimes feel jealous of others.
- How comparing yourself to others changes your energy.
- Why scarcity is an illusion.
- Why celebrating the success of others is good for you.
“The universe does not do do-overs, make mistakes or repeat itself, and it does not do meaningless acts. So who we are has meaning, value and is one-of-a-kind.”
Success is an elusive concept. It is easy to feel unworthy or unsuccessful when comparing yourself to the rich and famous. However, celebrity and success are not necessarily synonymous. Listen to this insightful interview with Michael Beckwith, founder and spiritual director of the Agape International Spiritual Center, and learn how unlock the beauty, creativity and success in all areas of your life.
In This Episode You Will Learn:
- Two things that stop people from fulfilling their potential.
- The difference between Fate and Destiny.
- The definition of Character.
- How to achieve a greater sense of worldly success.
- Two of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself in any situation.
- The greatest challenges we face as a species.
We have all done it at some point.
Tomorrow. Another time. Next week.
We have put off until tomorrow what we know we must do today.
What have you been putting off doing?
What important things are you procrastinating dealing with?
We make excuses that sound reasonable.
We lie to ourselves.
We settle for our own seemingly rational mind games.
Yet, we must remember that nothing great was achieved by being reasonable or conforming to the status quo.
Nelson Mandela didn’t.
Martin Luther King Jr. didn’t.
They were unreasonable in not listening to their fears or succumbing to their laziness.
Don’t let your fear or laziness highjack your dreams.
Your dreams have chosen you for a reason. You are the perfect person based on everything you have experienced in life to manifest it.
You have no control of what other people think about you.
The only control that you have is over yourself, and how you respond.
Your responsibility is not to make others happy but to be yourself fully.
People’s opinions of you reflect more about themselves than about you. So don’t take it personally. Just because they judge you a certain way, or have a negative opinion of you, doesn’t mean it’s true.
It’s just their opinion. It’s their perception, and perception is not reality.
Our perception is a projection based on our current level of consciousness which is determined by our conditioning and experiences.
So make peace with who you are, and who you aren’t. The more you love and accept yourself, the less you will seek it from others.
“Real love gives freedom, and in freedom there is always choice. The choice to do or not to do.”
Some Questions I Ask:
- What to do if you are in love with someone, but they want to have an open relationship?
- Is acting out all of your desires really freedom? What is real freedom?
- If you can’t have a relationship with one person, how are you going to have a relationship with 2 people?
- How being spiritually evolved is monogamy?
- What does loving unconditionally really mean?
What if I told you that thinking positively and doing your affirmations were not enough to manifest your desires?
You don’t get what you want, you get what you are.
Your job isn’t to make or force something to happen, your job is to clear away anything within yourself that is keeping you stuck.
When you clear away whatever is not in alignment with your truth, you bring yourself into the flow of life.
Often we hold onto things that are not working or old relationships because we get comfortable.
Holding onto what isn’t working is your affirmation in the lack of trust in the universe. And you will attract more of what you don’t want.
Holding onto what is no longer working out of fear simply blocks the manifestation of what you do want.
So ask yourself these questions:
- What is longer aligned in my life and what do I need to let go of?
- Who in my life is no longer a vibrational match that I need to bless and release?
- What is it costing me to hold on to that which isn’t working?
If something isn’t truly working, have the courage to let it go.
If a relationship is no longer a vibrational match, release it and make room in your life and heart for more love.
The universe is abundant, and if you want the next level, you must make space in your life for the next level.
You can’t receive the next level whilst holding onto the old.
When you let go of the old, you make space for the new to show up in your life.
Manifesting your goals is really about ALIGNMENT.
What is my purpose in life?
I get asked this question all the time at my live events and during interviews.
There’s often a myth that your life purpose is something that you need to figure out and find up front. That unless you are crystal clear you can’t live it.
But what if you didn’t need to know everything about your life’s purpose in order to begin?
Often when we focus so much on trying figure out all the details of our life purpose we can end up waiting and holding back our gifts.
If you want to live your purpose then stop waiting.
Simply begin by going in the direction that moves you most deeply.
No one is responsible for your happiness.
No one has power over you unless you allow them to have it.
The more you need other people and external events in life to be a certain way in order to feel free, the less free you will end up being.
When you take full responsibility for your inner experience you become powerful.
What are you making responsible for your current experience?
Who are you making responsible for how you feel?
“Do you REALLY love her?” I asked.
“Yes, but I am afraid, I just don’t know if I can commit to her”.
How many times have you heard this, or said this to yourself?
Many of my friends have recently expressed to me that they are afraid of committing to a relationship.
The real commitment is to Love itself.
When you commit to love itself, it’s then that you are truly free. All forms will change. Your lover will change. They won’t be the same person that they were when you met them. You will change. You will grow, mature and evolve. The relationship itself will also change.
This week's episode on SOULTALK is with the amazing Dr. Bruce Lipton, an internationally recognized leader in bridging science and spirit.
The widespread idea that we are at the mercy of our genetic programming can be terrifying, particularly in relation to our health. In this episode, Bruce Lipton explains why some people get sick and how little our genes have to do with our reality. He also shares 3 different methods to re-program your mind and create the life you really want.
Everyone has their own unique soul’s journey.
You may not understand it, and you may not agree with it.
It’s their soul’s journey.
Perhaps, you love and care for your child, grandchild, spouse, friend so much that you don’t want them to suffer in any way. And so you end up doing way too much to help them.
Or feeling over responsible for them, where you have a tendency to take on and do for them what they should be doing for themselves. In doing so, you think that you are helping them, but you really are not.
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