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“True joy is bringing your attention to the inherent beauty, inherent privilege of what it is to be alive in this moment.”
Stop chasing happiness. The quest actually makes us less happy.
We go after things that we think will make us happy, but we are left feeling empty. We often put happiness out there in the future and we are in a constant state of seeking it so we end up never feeling happy now. The ego has no interest in being happy. The moment it actually finds it, its role is dissolved so it keeps you distant from happiness.
Happiness does not come from what you achieve or get, it is a state of being. You can be happy regardless of what is happening in your life, regardless of what you have or don't have. You must question your definition of success. You must question your definition of happiness.
“There is a power when you dare to go slow.”
This can lead to being an over-giver. When you’re an over-giver and don’t allow yourself to receive, you also rob others of the gift of giving to you.
Giving and receiving are actually two sides of the same coin. So how do you stop being an over-giver if you are one? I share some thoughts in my new video.
Your feelings are a signal giving you feedback.
They are communicating to you, showing you, what you need to pay attention to.
We are conditioned to only feel what we think of as “positive” feelings. And we tend to do everything to avoid “negative“ feelings.
We must realize that the more we suppress our sadness, the more we limit our capacity to feel joy.
Consider this: Feelings are neither good or bad. These are just labels we place on them as a means of survival.
Feelings are feedback.
Feelings are energy.
Just because you aren’t where you think you should be in your life doesn’t mean you’re not exactly where you are meant to be.
Sometimes we get caught up in the idea that we need to achieve certain things by a certain time of our lives. When we don’t it’s easy to feel like a failure or beat yourself up for not being where you expected.
Perhaps you wanted to:
– Be a millionaire by 35.
– Be a New York Times Bestselling author, selling millions of books.
– Win an Oscar.
– Marry your soulmate and have 2 kids by 40.
– Own your dream house.
We all have our own ideas and expectations.
We all go through those moments when we feel like giving up.
Whether you are facing a tough time in your relationship, struggling financially, or facing repeated failures in the pursuit of your dream…. Life can be challenging at times.
But anything worthwhile takes patience, perseverance, and effort. If it was easy everyone would be doing it. On the path of greatness, everyone is invited, but only a rare few have the courage and dedication to stay the full course.
If you are going through tough times right now, remember that it is a season, and no season lasts forever. Even your most difficult time will pass.
Trust.
Your body is beautiful just because you have a body.
No other reason needed.
It is a living work of art. A masterpiece and magical expression of the Divine.
But how often do we really appreciate and love our bodies?
We have been conditioned and brainwashed by the media to believe that “You are not enough as you are”.
This is a lie.
We all have moments when we feel lost and unsure of what is going on, where we are going or what to do next.
What if in your greatest darkness when you felt lost, you were actually much closer to where you needed to be?
It’s scary to sit in the unknown. It’s often easier to go back to the familiar comforts of your old life. But this only leads to more of the same.
It’s easy to stay stuck in fear, and lose faith in such moments of feeling lost. But to act from fear only creates more drama and things to be afraid of.
Rather than act from fear and desperation, simply ….
Be still.
When you don’t know what to do…
“Love is what you are. It's your essence. It's not something that you need to get.”
Some Questions I Ask:
- What are bad decisions? And what are the consequences of bad decisions?
- What is the fear factor in decision-making and how can you deal with it?
- What are mistakes and how can you overcome them?
- What can you do about everything that is going on around you?
- What can you do to avoid regrets in the future?
“When you can really accept there is no such thing as perfection, it frees you up to be perfect in your imperfections.”
Are you in a constant pursuit of being perfect in your life? Worried you’re going to make a mistake? Over analyzing everything? In today's episode, I dive deep into this thing called perfectionism where I will explore how this can limit your life in so many ways and the keys to moving through this kind of thinking to more freedom, more joy and more acceptance in life. Listen to this short, powerful episode where I share key steps to overcoming the need, the addiction to being perfect. Life is short. Have no regrets. Embrace it all.
What is it you really want to manifest?
In our modern day culture and even in self-help and self-development, we're constantly being taught to know what you want and to be specific about what you want.
Here's the thing, there is a limited old paradigm in the way. Manifestation has been taught that it is possible to get what you want by willing your way through life.
To control life . . .
To impose your will on life and to manifest with your mind. . .
And, this is the old ego model of manifestation.
“There is a deeper impulse of how life is seeking to express itself through you. The more you can be open to that and allowing life to lead you, that’s where the magic happens.”
As I record this podcast episode, my new book, The Magic of Surrender is being released and launched into the world. I'm really excited and privileged to be sharing this book with you. I’m excited about this topic of surrender and helping redefine what surrender can mean in your life. I have to confess as we begin the exploration on surrender, this book is not the book I thought I was going to write. Listen to this episode as I dive deep sharing life wisdom I received in writing this book and how you too can live surrender as one of the greatest ways to live a life of flow, abundance and yes, magic. Let’s go!
We all go through difficult times, when things don’t seem to work out.
It’s easy to lose hope and feel like you are facing bad karma or luck during these moments.
Your karma is the result of the sum total of your actions. For every cause there is an effect.
If you are going through tough times right now, remember that it is only a season, and no season lasts forever. Even your most difficult time will pass.
Trust.
Your challenges are gifts in disguise sent by the universe to strengthen your character. Your dreams chose you for a reason. And your dream will take you on a journey of having to become the person who is capable of fulfilling the vision.
It’s often when things are challenging that we grow the most. So trust that you wouldn’t be going through the difficult situation if you weren’t ready or capable of handling it.
In these times you can either feel like a victim or you can take the first step and take full responsibility for your situation.
Rather than asking “Why ME?”
Ask “WHY am I going through this experience and WHAT is my soul seeking to learn?”
Recognize that you are not a victim.
Your current situation is simply the product of the total combined actions, thoughts, feelings and intentions of your past. Everything you have lived up until now has contributed to where you are. So it’s no accident.
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