Breakups are never easy. Some are more painful than others. Especially when you feel like you have given your all to the relationship or felt like this was going to be forever.
You attracted your partner because there were certain lessons that your souls were meant to teach each other. You attract to yourself a reflection of your own consciousness at that particular time.
As you both evolve and grow, who you were when you first met won’t be who you are months, years or decades into your relationship.
This is growth.
As long as you grow together at a similar pace, in a similar direction, with a similar vision and core values, you are able to keep growing.
The challenge is when either one of you stops growing or you grow in directions that are too far apart to find common ground.
You can see breaking up as a failure, or you can see it as a gift.
Here are 4 steps for dealing with a breakup:
Each person comes into your life for a different purpose. Some will stay for a brief moment, some for a season and some for a lifetime.
Just because the form of your relationship ends, it doesn’t mean the loving needs to stop or that it’s been a failure. It just means you needed to find a different form that most allows you both to grow into the highest version of yourself.
When you commit to loving no matter what, then you are free.
So trust that someone even better for you is being orchestrated by the universe and will show up at exactly the right time.
Your breakup is a blessing in disguise, clearing the way for more love in your life.
Your heart can never be broken.
Your heart is stronger than you know.
Your heart is made of the stuff of the universe.
You are love itself.