It's easy to forget that we are all perfect in our own design. Sometimes we muck it up with habits and choices that do not serve us.
Thanksgiving can be full of joy, gratitude, warmth, friends, family, and of course, good food! But it can also be an emotionally wrought holiday, especially when it comes to food.
Everyone has a favorite dish they look forward to on the table. Remember Campbell’s Classic Green Bean Casserole, created by Dorcas Reilly, Campbell Test Kitchen Manager, in 1955 that went viral in a pre-internet world? Apparently, the distinctive combined flavors of cream of mushroom soup, green beans, soy sauce, and French’s pre-cooked crispy onion rings has proved unforgettable to a multitude of Americans and is still a staple on Thanksgiving tables.
Dorcas Reilly recently passed away at the age of 92. Here’s her obituary in the New York Times.
Other classic Thanksgiving favorites include canned Le Seur peas, candied yams, favorite stuffings (the list is gigantic), not to mention all the varieties of pies and cakes that families prefer. The American Thanksgiving menu is white, tan and brown, except for the cranberries. Even gorgeous orange sweet potatoes are covered up by marshmallows, or so caramelized they look brown.
God forbid the family cooks who don’t provide those favorites when expected!
My mother, starting when I was 9 years old, always made a pumpkin chiffon pie with a graham cracker crust. I just LOVED that pie! I came home from college my freshman year, salivating for that pie. I’d been living with dorm food, and simply couldn’t wait to taste that pie. I remember that happy anticipation of desert... Then my mother brought out the pie, and it was NOT THAT PIE! She had tried a new recipe from the New York Times. I turned to her and I said, WHAT happened to the pumpkin chiffon pie? She said, I thought I’d try something new! I said, HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME? She said, I had no idea this was so important to you! I was beside myself.
Kind of ironic that I’m about to suggest you try something new for Thanksgiving! It takes a nerve, right?
I’m having the nerve. :)
Here’s my backstory. I get turkey anxiety! Me, a trained chef and cookbook author. The whole turkey thing is too much pressure for me! I don’t get involved anymore. I’ve fallen in love with sides, and have totally reimagined Thanksgiving as a festival of color!
I’m a proponent of trying one or two new things every year. Maybe you either slide em in or give fair warning, so people don’t have a meltdown at the table. If they really need their green bean casserole or candied yams, they can bring it.
Why don’t people think of salads for Thanksgiving? They provide such a great counterpoint to the heavier foods. This is an especially delectable one, a perennial favorite with family and friends.
Talk about a new version of an old favorite! I don’t want to take people too far out of their comfort zones, but here the ginger and the lime perform like a pair of piccolos, providing unexpected high notes of tartness and spice that play beautifully off the sweet potatoes’ sweetness and bass heartiness. You will love this tune!
If you have vegan or vegetarian friends coming to your table, this beautiful squash recipe is fantastic! My confirmed, dyed-in-the-wool meat-eating husband Gregg claims this satisfying dish is his favorite meal of all time. (!!!). I think you can count on your guests being bowled over.
You might not think of sauerkraut a Thanksgiving side, but it’s a Southern Maryland tradition! It makes a lot of sense, actually. Think about it—a tasty little condiment that aids in digestion, and adds a deliciously piquant flavor! We have it every year at our house.
How about a fresh new green bean recipe for those green bean fans? I’m here to tell you that string beans can have Thanksgiving-worthy pizzazz! A quick dip in boiling salted water followed by a quick plunge into an ice water bath stops the cooking process before the beans get wilted and preserves their gorgeous color. The caramelized shallots, garlic, and rosemary knock it out of the park.
I have nothing to say about the pie selection based on my own experience. I wouldn’t mess with anybody’s favorite pie if I were you!
A very Happy Thanksgiving from my family to yours!
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