How To Make Best Friends With Your Words

Pam-Thomas-How-to-Make-Best-Friends-with-Your-Words How To Make Best Friends With Your Words
"Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble."
-Yehuda Berg

 
I’m going to ask you to do something for me. Something that may seem a little unorthodox, but I promise, there’s a method to my madness.
 
Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and say either out loud or to yourself, “Wow you look really good today!”
 
Check in with how you feel, as well as your reflection and make a mental note of what you see and feel.
 
Now take a deep breath.  
 
Then count to three and say either out loud or to yourself,  “Wow you look like crap today!” Check in with how you feel and what you see and again, make a mental note of what you see and feel.
 
What did you notice?
Did your energy rise or drop?
Did you stand up straighter or did you shrink?
Did you get emotional?
Did your itty-bitty shitty committee (your internal naysayer) come out in full force?
 
I remember years ago doing a very similar exercise except I was encouraged to stare deeply into my own eyes and repeat, “I love you, Pam. I really, really love you!”  
 
The first time I did it, I cried like a baby. 
 
I’d become so used to saying all sorts of crappy things to myself (about myself) that saying something nice was a shock to my system. Suffice it to say, it wasn’t an easy exercise to do every day, twice a day, for 21 days.
 
I’ll be honest, I don’t even recall if I lasted the full 21 days.  I’ll say this however, that little exercise helped me to fully understand just how powerful words are.
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