Just the word itself can sometimes feel scary.
In our culture we tend to shy away from it. Often from a young age we are taught to suppress our authentic anger. We are told that it is not OK, it’s not appropriate, it’s not spiritual.
So we learn to disconnect and suppress our anger in order to be loved, and accepted by those around us.
The problem is, what you don’t feel and express in conscious healthy ways will inevitably end up coming out and expressing in unhealthy ways.
Here’s a few simple points to consider:
Regardless of what happened in your past, take responsibility for how you feel today. You can’t control what happened then, but you can control what happens now. When you decide to let go and forgive, you set yourself free. This is a power that you own.
That’s not to say that the things that others did were OK, and it wouldn’t be nice if they apologized. But to wait is to put your freedom in their hands. Your freedom and forgiveness doesn’t have to depend on someone else’s apology. You don’t NEED someone else to get closure. Getting closure is an inner process with yourself. You get closure when you take responsibility, forgive, let go and live your life fully.
Nothing and no one is worth your freedom.
Life is too short.
Any unnecessary moments spent in anger are moments wasted that cannot be returned.
Live your life.
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