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How to Find Your Calling: The 7 Shifts of Thinking to Practice

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How do you discover or trust your calling? Or live the life you most desire? Maybe the real question is what’s keeping you from everything you’re meant to be?

You may have noticed that we are living in inspired times. The job market and economy are changing; It no longer works to rely as heavily on external security. Still, there is a path of deep security. It’s your calling or passion. You were born to excel in your gifts. It’s exhausting to deny your inborn desires, your love, and quest for true expression. When you have a peacock inside you, you won’t be able to feed with the finches for long.

From years of helping others dare their dreams, I can tell you, it doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to find your calling or live it. You brain will never know. But your instincts know nothing else.

And here’s the rub for of us over-achieving type A’s: It’s not about doing. It’s about undoing all the beliefs that stand in your way. You already possess a destiny that’s better than anything you will read in a text book. You already have the hard-wiring to flourish. Yet, like most of us who have been conditioned to succeed in conventional, if not fulfilling ways, you have misguided beliefs that dilute your magic.

Believe I know. I couldn’t believe I’d ever make a living as a writer. So, I went to law school instead, graduated with honors from Harvard Law School, and practiced law with a big firm. Finally, pain forced me to leave everything I knew—and dare the dream in my bones. I’ve now written best-selling books on living your calling and become a national career/success coach.

In my coaching, I don’t help you change your career. I help change your thinking so that you experience more possibilities in all of life. Here’s 7 quick shifts of thinking to try on:

1) Clarity is A Rarity: 
 
You do not have to know what your calling is before you start taking steps toward it. Follow what you want right now, even if it’s a nap, a date with a paint brush or a frisbee. This is a path of learning how to trust yourself, follow what gleams, and ignore your assumptions and judgments. Action provides information and changes how you feel.

And on an inspired path, where you start out, is not where you end up.

2) “There’s No Way This Could Make Money”

Think again precious! The wealthiest people in the world did not cower in careers or expressions they “tolerated” or disliked. They pursued a wild hair, a hunger, or a mysterious demand from within. Steve Jobs didn’t do what made “common sense.” He followed the uncommon path of following his spark.

Inspiration increases your energy, stamina and genius. It makes you someone who interesting people want to know.
Joy changes your brain chemistry. Excitement and creativity open you to other income earning potential and experiences of abundance. You may even fall in love with your day job, while you build a dream empire in the evenings.

3) You Don’t Have to Choose One Thing. Just Choose One For the Moment.

Take a deep breath, you who love French cooking, and the study of micro-financing, and writing fantasy mysteries. Okay, so you’re varied. You don’t need to weave everything together into some grand master plan.

Pay attention to what you want to do in this moment, not what you want to do for the rest of your life.

Follow the passion that has heat right now, and it will lead you to your connection to yourself, which leads you to everything. You may also discover the wonder of “multiple income streams,” making money from different interests that, alone, don’t make much money, but together add up.

4) There’s A Glut of What I Want to Strut

Do you ever secretly wonder, really, who needs my parrot-shaped lemongrass infused decorator soaps? Who needs another bad childhood-turned-great lesson-memoir?
Well, lucky you, the world is starving for talent and love. Besides, you have an assignment. Your gifts are not for you. You’re here to uplift others and there are many in need. You will have your people. Some are waiting for your gifts right now. You are the conduit, not the head of the selection committee.

5) You Can’t Fail When You’ve Already Won

I so feared giving up a “validated” career as an attorney to pursue the shimmer of a writing life. I feared being a cliché or joke. But I finally realized that as much as I feared failure, I feared regret more. I had to see where my writing could go. Giving myself this chance, was the ultimate win. In my book Inspired & Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life’s Work! I define “unstoppable” as never stopping yourself in this lifetime. When I’ve coached business leaders, career-transition-ers, and artists, they never “fail,” unless they quit honoring what they truly want.

Give yourself every chance in life. And redefine success—to knowing that you are doing the right thing with your time on earth.


6) You Don’t Need a Map. You Need a Fire

You don’t need a calculated strategy as much as you need to trust your heart and heat. You won’t map the territory of wonder with your linear brain. You can’t plan an inspired life. I spent 12 years writing my first book This Time I Dance! Creating the Work You Love, and, following instinct, self-published it. A VP of Random House discovered it, thought it was “the best book she’d read on finding your calling,” and got it published by my dream publisher, Tarcher/Penguin.

If I’d stuck to following conventional strategy, doing it ‘the right way,’ I would have lost enthusiasm. I would have been trying to jump through hoops instead of following joy. Joy is more reliable than a plan.


7) You Are Worth a Lifetime of Radical Joy

It’s not “selfish” to pursue fun. It’s healthy to desire an extraordinary life. It’s a moral imperative to honor the direction of your soul.

Just because you’re having a ball, doesn’t mean you’re not accomplishing something. Don’t play small. The world needs what you have to give. And on top of that, there are those (perhaps your children?) who need your example of joy.


Grab this life. You ache for your grace for a reason.



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