“The best thing you can give the world is being the most magnificent version of yourself.”
After working with hundreds of thousands of people from around the world over the last 18 years, I have found three core beliefs that tend to stop us from manifesting our goals, dreams, and desires. Listen to this episode as I share about each one and learn the affirmations and remedies to help you manifest your full potential. Remember, it's only when you become aware of something that you have access to shifting it, to transforming it, to releasing it, to letting it go. Let’s do this.
There’s one sure-proof way to manifest your dreams and create a life you love…
Mastering the Spiritual Laws of the Universe!
These Laws govern every aspect of our reality. From our financial abundance to our health, every result we create can be traced back to our level of awareness of these Laws.
Just like gravity, these natural Laws are always at work – and once you learn how to harness their power, a whole world of possibility unfolds for you!
The Law Of Attraction is one of the most well-known Spiritual Laws. In simple terms, the Law of Attraction is the ability to attract into your life whatever you focus on.
Most likely, you’ve heard about it thanks to the best-selling self-help book The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne.
The Secret is a fascinating book, where Byrne unveils the secrets of life and how to accelerate your manifestations to create a life you love using the Law Of Attraction.
And today we’ll deep-dive into its profound wisdom to help you manifest your dreams faster and easier!
The Story Behind The Creation of “The Secret”
Before writing a spiritual best-selling book, Rhonda Byrne worked as a successful executive producer for television in Australia. But when her father passed away, she felt her life crumble beneath her feet.
She became profoundly depressed.
Out of concern for her, her daughter Hayley recommended a powerful book she knew would help her. That’s how she read “The Science of Getting Rich” by Wallace D. Wattles… and her life would never be the same.
This event opened the door to a world she had never known… she discovered the power of positive thinking, and the keys to success in the works of notable authors from the early 20th century, such as Napoleon Hill.
Her natural curiosity drove her to keep researching the power of the mind and the lives of remarkable people in history. She devoured everything she could get her hands on, including authors such as Jack Canfield, John Assaraf, Michael Beckwith, Bob Proctor, Joseph Vitale, Lisa Nichols, Marie Diamond, and many others.
That’s when she realized something unexpected: all successful people from the past knew how to apply a universal law that she had never heard of…
The Law Of Attraction!
Have you ever wondered what your role is in the grand scheme of life and the Universe?
Universal laws give us a somewhat simple way of understanding how the Universe works and how we work inside of it. Just like there are physical laws such as the law of gravity that explain the way the physical world operates, there are also invisible laws of how the Universe works.
Imagine the Universal laws as moving threads weaving together to form the tapestry of life. When you weave a tapestry, there are horizontal threads and vertical threads, which come together to create a fabric.
Your role in the Universe is like one of these two sides – you might be the horizontal threads and the Universal laws are the vertical. Together, you are weaving and co-creating. You are impacting and influencing reality just as much as it’s impacting and influencing you.
When you begin to grasp these laws and live in harmony with them, you can experience a sense of trust in the Universe and in life and create a life that’s in alignment for you.
Let’s go over some of these laws and what they mean…
Ask any highly successful person how they maintain their motivation and focus to achieve their ambitious goals, and chances are their answer will be, “daily affirmations!”
I have met countless successful business people, Olympic and professional athletes, NY Times bestselling authors, and visionary changemakers who all use daily positive affirmations to stay energized and focused on their goals, no matter what’s happening in the world around them. They have all told me that their daily affirmations practice has had a game-changing impact on their lives.
Today I’d like to teach you how daily affirmations for success actually work and show you how to write affirmations that will make it so much easier for you to achieve your life goals.
I’ll also answer common questions such as:
“What is a daily affirmation?”
“Are morning affirmations better than evening affirmations?”
“How to write affirmations that work?”
… and so much more!
Disappointment. We’ve all been there.
Whether it was the promising new relationship, the job interview that seemed so right, the passion project that didn’t pan out, we have all known the disappointment of not having our big dream met.
Even though the feelings of loss and sadness that come with disappointment totally suck, there are actions you can take to move you back into possibility.
When this happens to me, I give myself permission to spend a few minutes to experience my sad and blue feelings. Then I will journal these feelings and really exaggerate just how bad I feel. I let my imagination run wild on the negative side just to purge it all.
Next, I take a few moments to close my eyes, drop into my heart and remind myself of all the goodness in my life as I practice breathing deeply in and out through my heart.
Finally, I get my journal out again and this time I write myself five true and positive statements about my life.
After the more than a year of lockdown and the global nightmare we’ve all experienced, it’s time we dive into a summer of fun and celebration.
You deserve it.
Your family deserves it.
And, like all successful manifesting, we must begin with a clear vision of what our heart’s desire is.
Begin by thinking about all the things that represent summer to you: Activities, Food, Special events, things to see and do.
Since we don’t have any major vacations to Tuscany or Bali planned,
I desire my Summer 2021 to be a daily celebration of love, life, and lots of fun and I’m declaring that my Summer begins TODAY.
In no particular order, here’s what is on my list:
How do you envision God, Goddess, the Universe or whatever “divine” being you pray to?
Sometimes when I’m in a goofy mood, and I hear someone tell me what’s not possible for them to manifest, I imagine that “being” is like the “Soup Nazi” on Seinfeld.
He was a cantankerous owner of a soup bar in New York City and when you placed your ordered, if you asked for anything extra or special, he would angrily yell, “No soup for you!”
God/Goddess/Universe is not checking a clipboard deciding what you can and cannot have but when you decide, in advance, what is or isn’t possible for you, it’s YOU that blocks the possibility.
I think one of the hardest things about manifesting is managing our judgmental, critical, untrusting monkey mind.
Are you thinking about making some changes in your life? Maybe you’re planning to move to a new city, try a new career or pursue a new relationship?
Whatever it is you want to manifest in your life, here are two tips to get you started:
- Have a clear mental picture of what you want.
- Have a passionate desire to bring what you want into your life.
Remember: “The soul never thinks without a mental picture.”
When you have an image followed by the emotion of joy and excitement, as though what you desire is happening here and now, you open yourself to the universal energy – the Divine Source – that will assist you in fulfilling your aspiration or desire.
By visualizing what you truly desire and bringing in the positive, joyful emotions as if your goal is already happening, you stand a far better chance of your soul meeting your goal half way. If it’s for your highest good, and that of others – then you, your soul, and the Universe can all work as partners in your manifesting.
What is it you really want to manifest?
In our modern day culture and even in self-help and self-development, we're constantly being taught to know what you want and to be specific about what you want.
Here's the thing, there is a limited old paradigm in the way. Manifestation has been taught that it is possible to get what you want by willing your way through life.
To control life . . .
To impose your will on life and to manifest with your mind. . .
And, this is the old ego model of manifestation.
In 1980 John Lennon released a song on the Double Fantasy album that included these lyrics: “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
Sigh. So true.
Tuesday was the first day of the last month of 2020…easily the craziest year any of us have ever experienced. And all the big plans we may have had for 2020 were blown up by Covid-19, a failing economy, and you know the rest….
So, how does one plan for 2021, when the only thing we know for sure is that no one seems to know anything for sure?
For me, I am going back to the basics of true Manifestation.
Did you know that you’re already equipped with one of the most fundamental pieces of equipment to provide you with an endless supply of psychic information and guidance? Yes, it’s your body! You need look no further than your own physical body for answers.
I got my first real lesson in listening to my body when I was involved in a near-fatal automobile accident many years ago. You probably remember me talking about this in my first book Born Knowing. The shock to my system from the accident resulted in my energy centers or chakras being forced open. I soon realized that my abilities, which I’d so often pushed away, were back with a strength and intensity that I’d never experienced before.
Most people don’t realize that their body often acts as a conduit for information from our psychic senses through our energy centers. I like to say that our body is one big psychic antenna and the messages are flowing on a daily basis.
Honestly, it all boils down to self love. You have to see your worth, and then you have to start dreaming where you can.
Focus on the Beginning
I know for a fact that we as humans do not have to call in a crisis to actually create our shift and manifest our dreams. We just have to start, even if it means starting small. Maybe the dreams are teeny tiny at first, usually because that’s all we can do at the moment, but once you really start manifesting your dreams, you start to open things up and those dreams only get bigger and bigger.
Our inner beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves create boxes that we unintentionally keep ourselves in.
The ego mind LOVES these beliefs and stories! They keep you small and supposedly keep you safe.
Right now your ego mind has probably convinced you of certain things…are you in any of these boxes?
I’m struggling for money. I’ll never be wealthy.
I can’t find true love. I’m not even worthy of it.
Sandra and Daniel can’t help me. Why do I bother reading their emails? No one can help me.
There’s so much bad in the world. I can’t possibly be happy until things change.
Here’s a little secret for you… those limiting beliefs that keep you in tiny boxes are the lies told by your ego mind!
One evening after dinner, I was half-listening to a conversation between my husband and one of our daughters. They had been discussing her higher education and long term goals. Chloe happily responded to a question about her life after college, “I don’t know, I am still manifesting.” My attention was grabbed. I love how she is empowered by her awareness of co-creating life with the universe. I also love that she left room for the unknown; that’s where the magic resides.
During this same time frame, one of my clients materialized three things on her wish list. After months of attention, they landed in her lap all at once. Lilith had been working on a transition out of her current career in marketing. She also had been seeking a cause that her husband would join her in. Last she wanted to reestablish her connection with old college friends. Lilith finally received a new job offer, but with some twists. She would need to make some lifestyle changes and other big decisions impacting her family. Her husband supported her, and they began to create a new life together. She also reached out to her college friends. They helped formulate a long term plan. Lilith’s manifestations did not come neatly wrapped with a big red bow. She had to unravel the stressful pieces before she could declare her gratitude.
There once was a woman who saw on TV that her neighborhood was about to be flooded and the officials said everyone should evacuate.
She believed that God would save her, and she ignored the warning.
Then a city worker knocked on her door and told her to leave for higher ground and she said no, “God will save me.”
Then the floods came, and she had to run up to the second floor to stay dry.
A boat soon came to her second story window to rescue her and she said no, “God will save me.”
The water then filled the third floor and she ended up on the roof of her home.
A helicopter came and she said no, “God will save me.”
We are co-creators with God, so we have the ability to manifest what we want. However, as we all know, this is often easier said than done. We manifest only what we surrender. ~Martha Beck,
Certainly it is essential to visualize what we want, along with our excitement about it. Certainly it is essential to take consistent loving action toward manifesting our vision. But then what?
What does Martha Beck’s statement, “We manifest only what we surrender” mean?
To me, it means that, while I need to have goals, if I attach my joy or worth to achieving the goal, I am limiting my ability to manifest. The reason is that when I attach my worth or joy to getting what I want, I am in my wounded self, and the frequency of my wounded self is too low to manifest. I manifest when I let go of attachment and surrender the outcome to spirit, which is NOT something my wounded self wants to do!
My wounded self, by definition, is the part of me that wants control. Since surrender is the opposite of control, the last thing my wounded self wants is to surrender. If I go unconscious and allow my wounded self to be in charge of my intent, I’m actually creating the very powerlessness that my wounded self wants to avoid, and which is certainly not in our highest good during these challenging times.
An interesting scene unfolded before me. Two women deep in conversation walked down the street. One was dragging a much-used suitcase, and both were drinking from sparkling champagne flutes. They acted as if it was an everyday outing. It was the combination of crystal glassware and a battered suitcase that caught my attention. This was in contrast to the manicured neighborhood they walked through.
The following morning I was hiking when a bird landed on the trail about seven feet in front of me. My puppy and I watched a very large rattlesnake come out of the grass on one side of the trail. It slithered right past the bird and disappeared into dried grass on the opposite side. As we walked by, I could only see the rattles and part of the tail, the head and body were completely hidden. There was something comforting about observing the bird and the snake experiencing the only life they know.
Our world holds vast opportunities for very unique and rich experiences. We have the potential for amazing views, sounds, tastes, and colors. Every possibility we can think of, can be created. This concept is the foundation of the Law of Attraction. It is a popular practice used to manifest what you want in life. It encourages ownership for what shows up on your life path, or drive home.
I woke up this morning to news about world markets crashing, Corona virus numbers doubling, speaking engagements being canceled, and so much more.
And yet, I am feeling very optimistic as I wash my hands in hot soapy water and make a list of more food to store up on “just in case.”
Why am I feeling good?
Because my faith is strong that despite what is happening in the outer world (where I have little control) my inner world knows that whatever happens, ultimately I am OK and I am going to be OK.
This is a conscious choice to not dive into the worry and despair and anxiety that is prevalent right now.
This week I was inspired to choose an Oracle Card to point me in a direction of what to share with you and from the Enchanted Map deck, I picked the card Education.
So with this in mind, I asked myself what I might offer you as something to learn this week.
Since I just finished creating the new amazing Oracle Card 101 course this week, (Most awesome one I might add!) how to get the most out of working with Oracle Cards are foremost on my mind.
So I’m sure if you’re reading this you also watch the weekly Oracle Card Guidance and Lesson as well as pull cards from my website for free (and hopefully own your own decks!) and I bet that once in a while you might get a “WTF- HUH?” reading that freaks you out because it a) may seem to have nothing at all to do with your question, and/or b) the cards are all upside down, or you think they imply fear, disappointment, or you interpret you’re going to get a visit from a boogeyman who might sabotage your plans. EEK!
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